If there
is one thing I have always wondered about is why some people spend most of
their lives talking, and discussing about others. If you are one of those, have
you ever asked yourself why do you waste your time talking about others? Have
you ever asked yourself how much time have you spent on your entire life, not
discussing with other people, but about other people? I can assure you, the
answer would be many, many days.
There are
tons of other things more interesting and more important to talk about that
actually can make a difference; perhaps even fells you more talking about the
black silhouette of the trees with the sun behind them on the horizon. What
difference does it make to you the fact of talking about your peers? Nobody
gain nothing when they talk about others; in fact, it is a waste of their time
that they could spend doing amazing things that really can affect positively to
more than themselves.
So I
invite you that the next time you start talking about others, ask yourself
first if it is something that really worth spending your time on. For me, the
answer is always no. I rather
talk–and think–about things, events, or even better, ideas. When you start
talking about ideas instead of people, your life suddenly become more
fulfilling and enjoyable. You will start looking at things differently that you
were used to because you see them from a perspective where you don’t try to
figure it out how it may affect others, and you focus on how does it affect
you.
“Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.”
Eleanor Roosevelt
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